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Bharat Ratna Sachin Tendulkar has written a special article for the readers of Dainik Bhaskar on Independence Day. Read, in their own words …
“A very pleasant memory of my childhood is of that moment when the whole family is sitting together watching a movie on TV and when such a scene comes in which there is violence or is very painful, then my mother Used to close his eyes. Obviously, their curiosity would have increased my eagerness to see. But, even after a lot of struggle, I could not remove his hands from my eyes. How natural it is for parents to save the child from suffering. This behavior seems to have been coded into the parents' minds.
Science has proved today that the childhood that a child must have spent has an impact on his development and personality. Especially the first 6 years of life are very important, when the development of the brain is very fast. This is the time that determines how healthy and happy the child will be in the future. There is also new evidence, which suggests that the experience of negative emotions in childhood negatively impacts children's emotional development.
Today the whole world is battling the corona epidemic. In an atmosphere of uncertainty and fear when pre-schools and schools are closed, families are imprisoned in their homes, there are restrictions on movement, there are reports of loss of jobs and income, while there is stress in working from home. has gone. It is natural that parents will be under a lot of stress.
But at the same time parents have to be ready to fight this challenge and in any case their stress and negative feelings will have to stop reaching their children. In today's situation, it is very important that positive parenting be adopted.
It is our responsibility to create such an environment with positive thoughts and behavior so that we can bring our children out by fighting a serious challenge like this epidemic. This will increase their mental resistance.
This epidemic is an occasion when we can form a bond with our children so that we can support each other. In such a situation, the tendency to be a dictator is not at all beneficial for our children. We must understand our children's feelings. They need to be given so much space in which they can openly express their feelings and thoughts.
If a child is stubborn or behaving badly, then we should stop and think a moment before replying angrily. Because perhaps this way of the child is expressing his fear, tension and anxiety, which he is unable to express in any other way. In any case, we should avoid giving verbal or physical punishment.
Children will ask many questions about Kovid-19 and we have to answer it at a level that they can understand. Even if they do not ask questions, we should explain them about this situation. If you ask the same question again and again, then you should understand that they want consolation and trust, so it is important for you to be restrained.
If you don't know the answer to their questions, try to find it. There are millions of families, who are struggling with similar concerns, so it is more important that you take care of your children as well as you care because your emotional stability can be the most important gift for your child. .
A caress like listening to children patiently, a loving dab, a happy hug and a loving kiss will prove helpful in making your child a strong and kind person. With this, he will understand you and will be able to support anyone further. Our small children expect assurance from parents or other family members in the same manner.
No matter how much turmoil there is in the outside world, for children, their parents are their heroes. So whether we wear a turban or a crown or not, we need to convince our children every day, all the time, that we are there for them…. ”