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Coronaviruses are having an adverse effect on children's brains. The reason- The children have been at home for a long time. Their school, exercise, sports, walking and all are closed. Because of this, children are becoming irritable. In such a situation, there is a big challenge before the parents how to handle the children. How to keep them happy? So that Corona does not have an effect on his mind.
Daniel Goleman, author of the book Emotional Intelligence and Social Intelligence, says that as a parent, if you want to see a positive change in your children, first of all you have to understand their feelings.
Why do children get irritability?
Irritation in children comes due to 'meltdown'. Meltdown is a brainstorming process. Meltdown is very common in young children. This happens when children feel threatened or lacking security. During this time, they express irritability. At this time, parents should not talk to children until they come to the mid-freak out stage.
What is mid-freak out?
When the child suddenly calms down with stubbornness or anger, it is called a mid-freak out stage. It is common in almost all children. Talking at this stage, parents can find out why the child is stubborn.
What is Meltdown's Psychology?
According to Why We Snap's writer and neuro scientist R. Dogg Fields, irritability involves two parts of the brain being invoked. The first part is the amygdala, which reacts first to emotions like anger and fear. The second part is the hypothalamus, which controls the body's functions like heart rate and temperature.
When your children insist on sleeping on the bed alone, you should understand that the amygdala, the first part of his brain, has detected a threat or fear. For this reason, the other part of the brain 'hypothalamus' has started attracting him to sleep. In such a situation, you should let your child do what he is insisting to do.
Talking in children's eyes makes them quicker
According to Doctor Charles Nelson, a professor of neuroscience at Harvard Medical School, the best gesture when persuading a child is to sit on your knees in front of him. After this, hold both their hands and look into their eyes and talk. In such a situation, the chances of the baby becoming normal are more likely. The children soon become happy.
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Try to understand children's thinking
Scientists say that due to corona, the way of living has changed. You change yourself too. Come out of traditional methods. Try to understand the thinking of children.
According to psychologists, there are two ways of motivation. The first is Internal and the second is External. Know what both are-
We enjoy doing something more than internal motivation. You get satisfaction after work. Apart from this, our urge to learn increases more.
Our outcome in a work is better by external motivation. Like- when we work hard before an exam and the number gets good, then we have external motivation behind it.
1 out of every 10 children in the world hesitates to share their feelings
Childhood is the best period to learn and explore. A person learns in his childhood 50% of what he learns throughout his life. There are some children who speak very little. They get introverted. They keep their mind at heart. 1 in 10 children in the world feel hesitant to share their feelings, needs and problems with anyone.